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forevrdreamingofbetterthings

byakushisakura-rp asked:

I just read your byf and I had a question about one of the bullets. What is wrong with the term SGA? Doesn't it stand for same gender attraction?

answered:

I’m going to respond to this thoroughly because I think everyone would benefit from knowing why the term is harmful and should never be used, especially in the context of ace discourse.

@ungracefulace @feministingforchange @herefortheace @princaceleia @officialcisblog Because I think you guys would be interested in this ?

// suicide mention, h slur mention, conversion therapy mention, and homophobia/transphobia content warning

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feministingforchange

Wow I’m so sorry I missed this before, I’ve only just found it. Ty so much for explaining all this and sharing your experiences with us. I cannot imagine what that must have been like, especially for your dads!!! Let me know if you wanna talk about it, I’m here <3


@ anyone using the term SGA: 

READ THIS POST & USE “ASG” INSTEAD!


@ everyone reading this: 

pls signal boost!!!! 💜🌈⭐️ 

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Aside from the ableist slur (id**t) & the part about forced fellacio, I approve of this msg ~~

NEVER joke about or use the friggen HIV/AIDS CRISIS as a tool for the ace discourse (or for anything, really?!?!?). 

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Hi! Not To sound rude or anything like that, but would you mind sharing the recipe of your home mode deodorant? I also have my troubles with the mass produced stuff, so I've been looking for a good alternative. (I totally understand if you don't want to!)

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Omg OF COURSE I’m happy to share my recipe. I honestly think it’s a good idea for everyone to get into more natural and homemade stuff. When I stopped using the mass produced shid, I literally FELT my depression LIFT a few degrees. I genuinely FELT the shades lifting off of me as i got off of that shit. So I will HAPPILY share this recipe. 

Also, pls know that this recipe is highly open to personalization. If there’s something you really wanna try or add to it, go for it, it can’t hurt to try (although actually some things can, like going overboard with the baking soda bc it can literally burn off your skin if you use too much - i say this from personal experience…).

Ok so now that you’ve been prepped, here it is!!

Feministingforchange’s Homemade, All Natural Deodorant:

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.5 tbs softened Shea Butter (SUPER IMPORTANT! Ups the game a lot tbh, pls be sure to add this, it’s worth it i promise!)

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forevrdreamingofbetterthings answered:

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But again, pls correct me if this is an unfair understanding of the situation. Since i’m not sapiosexual myself, it’s hard to determine exactly ///what/// it is.

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