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Can we pls stop using “bullying” to describe any kind of aggression or disagreement?!?!

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So… I was just called a “bully” for disagreeing with someone. 

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As a criminologist who specializes in bullying AND who’s had a long history of being victimized BY bullies, I felt the need to step in here and educate.

Unlike popular media would have you believe, bullying’s not just any kind of disagreement or aggression. There are 3 requirements for something to qualify as bullying.

1. Bullying is aggressive behavior that involves unwanted, negative actions.
2. Bullying involves a pattern of behavior repeated over time.
3. Bullying involves an imbalance of power or strength.

Bullying is also peer-to-peer so a teacher can’t bully a student and a parent cannot bully a child. That’s called harassment and child abuse respectively, ok? Bullying, otoh is between peers like co-workers, students, adults, children, K?

This has been a PSA.

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ATTENTION dog owners:

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The increasingly popular sugar substitute Xylitol is poisonous to dogs!!!

Found in many items like gum, diabetic foods and sweets, “sugar-free” items, toothpaste, and so on, Xylitol is incredibly toxic to dogs so please please PLEASE be careful and protect your pooch! 

Symptoms of xylitol poisoning in dogs include the following:

  • Weakness or lethargy
  • Depression
  • Walking drunk
  • Acute collapse
  • Vomiting
  • Trembling or tremoring
  • Seizures
  • A racing heart rate
  • Jaundiced gums
  • Black-tarry stool
  • Diarrhea
  • Bruising
  • Abnormal mentation
  • Clotting problems
  • Death

If you think your dog was accidentally poisoned by a sugar-free product, first, stay calm! Next, read the ingredients to see if the product contained xylitol. The general rule is that if xylitol is listed in the first 3-5 ingredients (typically in order of the amount that they appear in the food or product), it is going to be poisonous!*

*If your dog does get into something sugar-free, always check the ingredient list. Note that other sound-a-likes like sorbitol, maltitol, and erythritol are not poisonous to dogs. Likewise, other sugar-free products such as stevia, saccharin, sucralose, aspartame, etc. are also not poisonous to dogs. If your dog gets into one of these other sound-a-likes, it’s not poisonous. No need to worry, as long as you’re positive there’s no xylitol!

With xylitol poisoning, it is imperative to calculate whether a toxic dose has been ingested. In dogs, doses > 0.1 g/kg are considered toxic and result in profound, sudden problems. Higher doses (> 0.5 g/kg)… READ MORE

SIGNAL BOOST!!!

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It’s also in some peanut butter so please be extra careful!!! <3

ICYMI mine caps gif warning 50 shades of abuse lol amazing consent bdsm matilda mara wilson
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Can we pls stop using “bullying” to describe any kind of aggression or disagreement?!?!

feministingforchange

So… I was just called a “bully” for disagreeing with someone. 

image

As a criminologist who specializes in bullying AND who’s had a long history of being victimized BY bullies, I felt the need to step in here and educate.

Unlike popular media would have you believe, bullying’s not just any kind of disagreement or aggression. There are 3 requirements for something to qualify as bullying.

1. Bullying is aggressive behavior that involves unwanted, negative actions.
2. Bullying involves a pattern of behavior repeated over time.
3. Bullying involves an imbalance of power or strength.

Bullying is also peer-to-peer so a teacher can’t bully a student and a parent cannot bully a child. That’s called harassment and child abuse respectively, ok? Bullying, otoh is between peers like co-workers, students, adults, children, K?

This has been a PSA.

ICYMI mine caps gif warning 50 shades of abuse lol amazing consent bdsm matilda mara wilson
forevrdreamingofbetterthings

Can we pls stop using “bullying” to describe any kind of aggression or disagreement?!?!

feministingforchange

So… I was just called a “bully” for disagreeing with someone. 

image

As a criminologist who specializes in bullying AND who’s had a long history of being victimized BY bullies, I felt the need to step in here and educate.

Unlike popular media would have you believe, bullying’s not just any kind of disagreement or aggression. There are 3 requirements for something to qualify as bullying.

1. Bullying is aggressive behavior that involves unwanted, negative actions.
2. Bullying involves a pattern of behavior repeated over time.
3. Bullying involves an imbalance of power or strength.

Bullying is also peer-to-peer so a teacher can’t bully a student and a parent cannot bully a child. That’s called harassment and child abuse respectively, ok? Bullying, otoh is between peers like co-workers, students, adults, children, K?

This has been a PSA.

ICYMI mine caps gif warning 50 shades of abuse lol amazing consent bdsm matilda mara wilson